Several risk factors are associated with violent relationships. We would like you to be aware of the real danger in abusive situations. However it is very difficult to assess how many risk factors apply to a specific individual’s situation, because it usually happens behind closed doors.

Abuse includes one or more of the following:

· Slapping, pushing; no injuries and/or lasting pain

· Punching, kicking; bruises, cuts, and/or continuing pain

· "Beating up"; severe contusions, burns, broken bones, miscarriage

· Threatening to use weapon; threat to cause head injury, internal injury, permanent injury or miscarriage

· Use of weapon; wounds from weapon

· Verbal and emotional abuse

A comprehensive questionnaire to assist you in helping your client or colleague.

Inter Vrauma Nexus Affiliasie

Inter Trauma Nexus se missie is om ‘n multi-professionele ondersteuningsnetwerk vir die gemeenskap te wees. Ons doen dit deur sielkundiges, maatskaplike werkers, regslui, kerkleiers, besigheidskundiges, onderwysers en persone wat met mense werk in die gemeenskap saam te snoer as ŉ effektiewe, selfgedrewe ondersteunings- en bemagtigingsnetwerk.

(Meer inligting)

For Pastor and church leaders:

“Gifts are put in us, not on us.

Only you can wear your gift.”

D Meyer

I can't give solutions to all of life's problems, doubts, or fears.

But I can listen to you and together we will search for answers.

I can't change your past with all its heartache and pain,

Nor the future with its untold stories.

But I can be there now when you need me to care.

I can't keep your feet from stumbling.

I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.

Your joys, triumphs, success, and happiness are not mine;

Yet I can share in your laughter.

Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;

I can only support you, encourage you, and help you when you ask.

I can't prevent you from falling away from friendship, from your values, from me.

I can only pray for you, talk to you, and wait for you.

I can't give you boundaries which I have determined for you,

But I can give you the room to change, room to grow, room to be yourself.

I can't keep your heart from breaking and hurting,

But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces and put them back in place.

I can't tell you who you are.

I can only love you and be your friend.

(Contribution by Dr F Smalberger)

MoVhusi: Vir jeugsake

Om ‘n terapeut te kies

Jy voel goor en jy sukkel om uit ‘n gat te kom, want jy weet nie hoe om te ‘cope’ nie. Vriende het voorgestel dat jy hulp kry en nou oorweeg jy net dit. Waar begin ‘n mens? Hoe kies ‘n mens die ‘regte’ terapeut?

Net soos wat ‘n mens nie sommer bevriend raak met elke Jan Rap en sy maat nie, moet ‘n mens oordeelkundig te werk gaan as jy vir raad wil gaan aanklop. (Klik vir die riglyne)

Nexus Nuus

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Die inhoud van die nuusbrief is gemik op mense wat met mense werk, soos bestuurders, onderwysers, kerkleiers en kundiges in die “mens”- wetenskappe.

Die E-nuusbrief word outomaties gestuur aan alle affiliate wie se fooie op datum is. Indien u die nuusbrief gereeld wil ontvang, klik hier.

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“Self motivation in the light of family trauma”

One-Day Seminar

In Pretoria

Tuesday 31 July 2007

Cost is R 120.00

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