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Feb/Mrt 2007 Feb/March |
Volume 1, Number 2 |
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In This Issue ·
Die doel van die E-nuusbrief · ITN Affiliates: BEFORE YOU HELP ANYONE! Artikels/Articles Konflikhantering:
Opponente of vennote Short Training Courses Basic
Crisis & Trauma Handling Course (English) 17 April 2007 Basiese
Krisis & Trauma Hanteringskursus (Afrikaans) 24 April 2007 Basic
Counselling Skills for Managers 7 March 2007 Professionele-Groepbyeenkomste Useful pages Contact Us ( Tel 012 333 3501 Fax 012 333 3504 Cell 073 762 9969 * PO Box 165 Garsfontein, 0042 B 1147 Terblanche St Villieria, PRETORIA, RSA È Barbara Louw 083 700 1441 ÿ ã2007 Aquilla Advisors All rights reserved.
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Die doel van die E-nuusbrief
is om u kortliks op hoogte te hou van die werksaamhede van Inter Trauma
Nexus. Ons gee ook skakels (links) na ons web werf, vir maklike toegang tot
items waarin u mag belangstel. Die inhoud van die nuusbrief is gemik op mense
wat met mense werk, soos bestuurders, onderwysers, kerkleiers en kundiges in
die “mens”- wetenskappe. Die E-nuusbrief word outomaties gestuur aan alle
affiliate wie se fooie op datum is. Indien u die nuusbrief gereeld wil
ontvang, klik hier. Inter Vrauma Nexus Affiliasie
For Affiliates: VICARIOUS STRESS MANAGEMENT Supporters, therapists and counselors are not
“super-human-beings”. No one is immune to the pain and horror of trauma in
our community. The people around you
may be suffering and needing help. However,
you need to be aware of the fact that you may also have experienced an
emotional trauma. Emotional self-care is essential for your well-being and
for the well-being of your client. A burnt out therapist is a greater risk
than help, for any client. Here are
some suggestions about how to prepare yourself to help others: ·
Do some breathing exercises regularly to allow
oxygen to nourish your blood and remind yourself that you are alive and
functioning. ·
Give yourself permission to allow your feelings to unfold.
A personal journal is a valuable tool to assist you in ordering your
thoughts. ·
Make notes in this journal of what you believe has
sustained you through past crises in your life and what you believe will
sustain you now. Some examples might be: o
Drinking a cup of tea with a friend o
Praying o
Meditating o
Walking o
Watering your garden or flower pots o
Listening to music or playing an instrument o
Writing letters o
Reading what inspires you o
Drawing or painting o
Playing a physical sport alone or with others ·
Regardless of your appetite and sense of body
during this crisis, be purposeful and drink water throughout the day, eat
three nourishing meals a day, keep up your regular hygiene practices
including bathing, brushing teeth, washing hair and wearing clean clothes. ·
Contact five people you care about and let them
know you want to share a few moments with them during these hard times. Listen to their experiences and tell them
yours. Let them know you care about
them. ·
Take walks or otherwise give yourself some physical exercise that
takes you out into the day and away from television and radio news. ·
Put something lovely in your line of vision: a plant, a pretty stone, or a beautiful
picture. If you take care of your own mind and emotions you will feel free
enough to think appropriately, respond adequately, and think creatively with
empathy and compassion for others.
Then you will be able to share your passion for life and offer
effective support to others. “Like
birds, let’s leave behind what we don’t need to carry… Grudges,
sadness, pain, fear and regrets… Fly
light” Tienergeweld
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Vir die doel van die artikel is die definisie van geweld ‘n
doelbewustehandeling om iemand anders seer te maak. Geweld is ‘n groot
probleem onder tieners en adolessente. |
In Suid-Afrika is daar
toenemende verslae van geweld wat deur jong mense veroorsaak word. Daar is
egter nie ‘n enkele verklaring vir die toename in tienergeweld nie. Verskeie
faktore dra by tot gewelddadige gedrag, onder meer:
·
Groepsdruk en/of ideologiese
rasionalisering
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Behoefte aan aandag of respek
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Gevoelens van lae selfwaarde
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Mishandeling (insluitend
verwaarlosing) tydens vroeë kinderjare
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Aanskouing of belewenis van
geweld in die ouerhuis en gemeenskap
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Vrye of maklike toegang tot
wapens
Wat veroorsaak dat ‘n persoon
iemand anders skop, slaan, steek of ‘n vuurwapen rig en afvuur? Wat
veroorsaak dat ‘n jongmens hom- of haarself geweld aandoen? (Klik vir die volledige artikel)
“Being on either end of a violent situation, whether you seem
to have come out with the upper hand or whether you don’t seem to, it doesn’t
resolve anything. It escalates the problem. Hatred leads to more hatred.
Violence leads to more violence.” A
Yauch
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Thank you …to Pride Rock Lodge for their
hospitality when we presented the Turbo Cash course. This lodge truly brims with warm
hospitality and is the ideal place for relaxation. Vanderkloof Dam Tel: 053 664 0242
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Dankie …aan Triple Option Trading as
gedeeltelike borg van ons kantoor in Villieria. Oppi Plaas Restaurant, konferensie- & onthaalvenue Tel 012 333 2117
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